Being a cigarette or cigar smoking lady can be a very hot turn on for many men. Men who find cigar smoking ladies sexy are often into the fetish of smoking as a whole and may or may not be interested in other common fetishes, such as the female wearing leather, being overweight, or inflicting pain or humiliation, that often go along with a smoking fetish. For some, seeing a fat lady smoking is one of the hottest things possible, as it evokes an image of someone who has completely defied social norms and done her own thing. This same image of rebellion is what often attracts men to ladies in leather smoking. If a woman is dating a man who is into this fetish, there are some tips and tricks for making it even more exciting for him.

First, the woman should talk to her lover and find out what, exactly about the fetish interests him. If he is just into cigar smoking ladies in general, then the task before the woman is easy. All she will have to do is light up a cigar and smoke it in a slow, sultry manner to turn him on. She might also ask if he enjoys having the cigar ashed on him or being burned with the cigar as many men actually enjoy this type of pain. As stated above, some men like to see a fat lady smoking. Even if a woman is not fat, she can help her man enjoy this fetish by watching pornography that features heavier people with him. This is also true for men who like ladies in leather smoking, as there is a great deal of ponography that features this. Of course, it’s even better if the female goes out and purchases her own leather ensemble to wear.

It is important, however, that women do not do anything they feel uncomfortable with in any way. It is very important, when any fantasy is at play, for partners to discuss what is acceptable about the fantasy to both parties and what is unacceptable. Often times, a safe word will come into play with this. A safe word simply means having a word that either party can say in order to stop the behavior that is happening. This word should be carefully chosen, easily memorable, and clear to both individuals before the sexual activity begins. Keeping all of this information in mind should lead to being a sexy cigar smoking lady and having a great experience.